A commonly used phrase is one by which someone judges another to be ‘seeking attention’. Attention seeking behaviour is frequently (incredulously) dismissed and is something which is frowned upon. Perhaps that is because the behaviour of another is ‘manipulative’ and not entirely honest. It might be because the seeker of attention does not yet know [...]
Archive for December, 2008
Paying Attention to Our Selves
Posted in Healing, personal development, tagged acting out, attention seeking, co-dependency, healthy behaviour, healthy role model, independence, love, manipulative, martyr, needs, personal development, shame on December 20, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
Energy Vampires
Posted in Healing, psychic, spiritual, tagged anger, archangel michael, assertiveness, blame, boundaries, centred, cord cutting, drained, effective communicaiton, energy, enough is enough, exhausted, judgement, moaning, psychic attack, psychic vampires, rescue, responsibility, sapped, sinking stomach, sob story, solar plexus, white bubble on December 11, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
Energy vampires are often talked about in psychic and healing jargon and this is referring to a person who is believed to be draining another person of energy, or attacking another person as in the case of psychic attack. In their presence, or at a distance, we may start to feel like our energy or [...]
The Wounded Healer Part I
Posted in Healing, spiritual, tagged abuse, authenticity, clarity, compassion, damage, expectations, genuiness, Healing, injustice, motivations, pain, rescuer, suffering, understanding, unethical, vulnerable, wounded on December 10, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
The Wounded Healer and the Rescuing Healer
Many healers share a common background, that of the wounded healer, where at some point we may have experienced in one form or another, injustice, suffering or abuse. From the pain that this has opened up, we may find that we can relate to another’s suffering and their feelings of [...]
The Wounded Healer Part II
Posted in Healing, spiritual, tagged anger, codependancy, guilt, karpman triangle, persecuter, rescuer, transference, victim, wounded healer on December 9, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
The Karpman Triangle
A drama that we can become entangled in is the ‘Rescuer, Victim, Persecutor Triangle’ (Karpman Triangle). This is where someone (the rescuer) perceives that another (the victim) cannot cope and rushes to assist, or ‘help’ them, rather than taking a step back and giving the other space to take the steps themselves to find [...]
The Wounded Healer Part III
Posted in Healing, spiritual, tagged awareness, centred, crisis, emotions, energy, limitations, release, unconditional, wounded healer on December 9, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
Limitations
It is also good to be aware of our limitations as a practitioner, by being aware of when we are not able to handle a situation due to lack of experience or without bringing our own issues into it. It may be that it is learning curve for us and we can handle the situation, but we [...]
Psychic & Intuitive Development
Posted in psychic, spiritual, tagged brow chakra, chakras, channel, cosmic joke, do no harm, emotional baggage, intuition, meditation, opening up, perception, psychic development, psychic sight, root chakra, senses, third eye on December 9, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
Psychic & Intuitive Development
With all development the most important thing to pay close attention to is your own senses and what feels right for you. It doesn’t matter one iota if someone has been doing this for years and is seemingly more experienced and knows more than you think you do, if it doesn’t feel [...]
Other Methods of Psychic Protection
Posted in Healing, psychic, spiritual, tagged angels, aqua aura, archangel gabriel, archangel michael, archangel raphael, archangel uriel, diamond reiki, ethereal crystals, intuition, Jophiel, kundalini reiki, obsidian, pentagram, psychic, psychic attack, psychic protection, psychic vampires, ruby, rutilated quartz, solar plexus cross, spiritual, the colour gold, tourmaline, white light, Zadkiel on December 7, 2008 | 2 Comments »
Other Methods of Psychic Protection
With all psychic and spiritual exercises, if you do what feels right for you, it is more likely to work for you. By our choices, we come to know who we really are. If you have a sudden flash of inspiration, go with it! Be creative and pay attention to what you [...]
Psychic Protection
Posted in Healing, psychic, spiritual, tagged archangel michael, bad vibes, boundaries, bubble, closed, energy, entity, fear, frightened, haunted, love, manifesting, methods, open, psychic protection, sensitive, white light on December 7, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
Why Protect Ourselves?
There are some that would say that not protecting ourselves psychically is similar to leaving the backdoor to our house wide open for all and sundry to walk in. Protection is a psychic boundary or barrier which we mentally construct in order to deflect or keep out negative energy or entities from our [...]
